Have you ever been afraid to say “no” to someone? What about smiling at someone you are afraid of? Do you go against your own wishes and desires to give other people what they want? Have you done things for other people knowing that it is going to harm to you? Do you make plans with people and cancel at the last minute when you realize that you never wanted to go? Have you ever been unsure of what you wanted and bent over backwards to meet somebody else’s needs? Have you walked on eggshells in your own household?